Free from bitterness
The root of bitterness grows when you continually meditate on a negative story. At the heart of bitterness is the desire for
revenge and being vindicated. It's another way to justify yourself and not take full responsibility for your own restoration.
The natural tendency during a restoration process. It is to look back and play the movie of the incidents that led to failure.
Every time you revive the dead, the bad smell is stirred, and this feeds the root of bitterness, what was buried should not be unearthed for the world, the passing rarely works for good.
Isaiah 43: 18-19, Micah 7:19
Do not look back or relive what causes pain, your life and the best with your partner is ahead; you have to look straight ahead to enjoy it.
Bitterness brings to mind the people who hurt us.
Bitterness delays the restoration process.
Tips to let go of bitterness:
· Make sure you don't pay bad for bad.
· Strive to do good.
· Enjoy time with your partner.
· Have a very special time together and alone.
· Get out of the routine, as it is harmful.
· Be spontaneous and detailed, this heals the bitterness and kills it.
· Hold on to the good and dream of big projects.
· Change your mindset and attitudes.
Remember the fundamental work on the Cross was the Forgiveness of our sins. (Colossians 2:14)
We were buried with Christ. But we were also raised with Him to a new life.
Bitterness poisons the soul because it is not part of its nature in Christ. Don't let it contaminate you and stop the glorious work of the Spirit
Holy of God in you.
You do not have to prove that it is correct, nor justify your actions, the restoration will lead you to a new life not full of arguments, but of admiration for the wonderful grace of the father who did not abandon you when you betrayed him, but ran towards you to restore you.
Galatians 2:20
When a man forgives a woman from ¨Heart¨ it is reflected in the relationship, it is lived under an atmosphere of peace, joy, passion and love.
Marriage is never the same but it is different and better to let go of bitterness is the best thing a person can do, since the
Bitterness binds the person and causes high-risk diseases such as: heart disease, insomnia, migraines, anxiety, depression, etc ...
The greatest medicine that a person who suffered a betrayal blow can receive is forgiveness and unconditional love from their partner.
After the fall everything is restored and it is better than before and especially when they have invited Christ into their marriage where the fear of God is
part of his and hers life.
They say: that bitterness is like revenge kills the soul and poisons it and is one step away from hatred, if you decided to stay with your partner then you decided to forgive and persevere with your spouse until the end.