Forgiveness is based on the blood of Christ, not on how many times you confess, what methods you use, what procedures you invent, and how many formulas they recommend to ensure God's forgiveness.
Forgiveness is a sovereign act that God offered us in Christ; The restorations a process over time.
Have you ever wondered or seen how your marriage was before and after the experience that you have to live with your spouse.
Remembering is not the intention in this chapter or to remove any hurts but to recognize what God is capable of doing in a man and a woman when they decide to start over, and hold on to forgiveness.
In the walk of life we look at how many marriages suffer the blow of infidelity and many times we help them to restore themselves but we never imagine that one day that tremendous crisis may come to our marriage, which can only be overcome with the love that one has for each other.
The day of confession, a day where adrenaline reaches its maximum expression, where the feet tremble and the sweat comes out cold, a moment that you do not want to live but that is the beginning of liberation and the process of healing one of the most important things. powerful and important in a marriage is that always
There is a possibility of wanting to save the marriage.
You should always think about the possibility of saving so many years of marriage and everything that has been achieved together, something that should never be forgotten is that there are two of us in marriage and that we are both imperfect surrounded by many offers and situations adverse to marriage. .
Choosing to stay with your spouse is the better decision than considering divorce, and many do not have access to forgiveness and lose their marriage.
1. Corinthians 10:13, Ephesians 4:32
Making use of forgiveness and second chances is a decision that will not disappoint you, healing the mind, heart and soul is a process that begins from the moment you decide to forgive and start over.
By starting this path, you start a relationship of maturity and solidity in your marriage which makes you better than you were before.
Ecclesiastes 3: 1 8
Time plays a very important role in rebuilding a relationship that has been hit by a type of situation already mentioned where the one who made the mistake must learn to have patience and make merits of trust to regain the trust that was lost in him (her )
In the process nothing is instantaneous everything is a path of time and time will produce desired results.
In time four stages develop:
1. Wish.
2. Conception
3. Birth
4. Death
Desire for the error of infidelity is born from a desire of the heart as James 1:14 15 says and develops in days, months or years.
Conception is the process or the beginning of a relationship.
Birth is when what is desired and conceived unfolds.
Death:
It is when what should never have been born dies and comes to an end.
Time plays a positive or negative role and plays many times in favor of marriage, marriage is the institution that enjoys with all the attention of God since he founded it in Eden, the four previous stages are also manifested in the restoration of the marriage.
The key to restoration is giving time to processes.
Steps in a focused restoration process.
1. An authentic and intimate communion with the Lord.
2. An intimate and trustworthy relationship with your family and partner.
3. Be Shepherded or assisted by a mentor.
4. Rebuild a good reputation with your Spouse.
5. The possibility of starting new projects together.