From dream to nightmare
Restoration is not easy, but it is more difficult than living with failure for the rest of your life.
When a person begins a relationship outside of marriage, sometimes it begins as a dream that in reality what we are initiating is a nightmare that can be completely harmful to our life.
The Bible teaches us very clearly that we must take care of the strange woman (man) and teaches us the imminent danger we may face.
Read Proverbs 6: 25-35
When a married person commits adultery without knowing Christ, it is someone who is possibly lacking in wisdom and fear of Jehovah, but when a person who has been baptized as a Christian and serves in the kingdom of God and commits adultery, such person violates Biblical principles and crosses the boundaries where on the other side is not the Holy Spirit but the enemy and his demons.
Read Proverbs 1: 7
For there to be healing in a marriage, there must be a triangle that is the only one that can lead to restoration, healing and forgiveness.
This is known as the triangle:
God
Perfect
Man Woman
Will God forgive someone who has failed?
A. Yes
Perfect: Completely finish a work, giving it the highest possible degree of excellence.
Anyone who has made a mistake and acknowledges it and shows repentance is worthy of mercy, so if he draws near to God, God will draw near to him. James 4: 8
The Bible says that love can do everything, and in times of crisis, both men and women should recall good attitudes, good times, good treatment, their children, and love for their spouse. And it is where we must dispose our hearts and show forgiveness. Bearing one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another in the way that Christ forgives you, so do you also. Colossians 3:13
And above all these things, dress in love, which is the perfect bond.
Colossians 3:14
One of the things that we must not forget in our lives is that we belong to the Lord Jesus Christ, therefore we must make use of love and forgiveness to all those who have sinned and remembering the words of the Apostle Paul that whoever books him from this body of death. Romans 7: 14-25
And the apostle Paul himself teaches us that our body is the temple and dwelling place of the Holy Spirit of God. 1 Corinthians 6: 12-20
Investigate what it means:
Grace, Justification, Sanctification, Predestination and Providence.