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1. Peter 3: 7
¨ You, husbands, likewise, live with them (wife) wisely, giving honor to the woman as a fragile vessel, and as joint heirs of the grace of life, so that your prayers are not hindered.
It is in the only part of the Bible that I find that prayers have an obstacle, it is related to the relationship between men and women. He does not say: with his mother-in-law, does not say: with his pastor, or with the friend or neighbor and even with the family member, the man's prayer is hindered when he does not know how to live wisely with his wife.
When you go fishing, drive a vehicle, open a business, you need a license for everything, but to get married you only need $ 45.00 and they give it to anyone to get married and you do not receive a teaching of at least two months, then they come the failures, because after six months the reality of marriage begins.
What did I do? What did I see in her or him? What was I thinking when I married this? If I had known before what it was, wouldn't I marry?
When the man is getting married he is visited by a tornado of category five hormones, when the woman is getting married he is visited by great expectations.
Two different poles, one thinks about sex the other thinks about the future.
The man already wants to say ¨I accept ¨ the woman starts to cry as she already senses the mess.
A marriage license gives us the power to create a new life, to destroy your life or to destroy dreams and hopes of your spouse and family, with $ 45 you enter the most serious game of your life.
Marriage.
¨ Marriage is like fishing, you buy the license and try your luck ¨
An elderly single woman said of marriage: why do I need a man? I have a stove that goes up in smoke, a parrot that curses and a cat that goes out at night. Poor old woman. At least his expectations were realistic.
What are the expectations of some men.
You have to like my friends, you have to like my sports, you must include me in your activities, you have to agree with me, lose weight and stay in shape, never do something that bothers me. Etc..
Expectations of the woman:
A man in love with her, a man who protects her, provides for her, respects her, loves her, an emotionally stable man, an independent man, a responsible man and a family man.
Look at the great differences in expectations between one and the other.
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There are men and women who have been preparing for a career for many years and for a short time they prepare for marriage, they do not get to know each other enough when they are already setting a date to get married.
A courtship that is too short can lead to a disastrous marriage, over 60% of young marriages end in divorce. Marriage is more than a honeymoon, it is a contract for life.
Marriage is the act in which two incompatible people learn to be compatible through a commitment of compassion.
Genesis 2: 23-24
Anecdote: a man was walking along a California beach and he tripped over an old lamp and rubbed it instantly, a woman genius appeared, and told him make a wish and I will please you for having set me free, then the man thought for a few minutes and he said: I have always wanted to go to Hawaii but I get dizzy on planes and boats, build me a highway and the Genius answered, That's impossible! Think of the logistics, there are no piles long enough to reach the Pacific Ocean, think of the amount of iron and concrete that is impossible, he said: laughing, he makes another wish.
Then the man said to him; my wife thinks I'm insensitive. Help me understand women. Why do they cry when they are happy? Why do they cry when they get angry? Why do they change their mood for no apparent reason? Help me understand women.
Then the Genie looked at him and asked, Do you want the highway to Hawaii with one or two lanes?
That is why the Bible says: ¨ You, husbands, likewise, live with them (wife) wisely, giving honor to the woman as a fragile vessel, and as joint heirs of the grace of life, so that your prayers are not hindered . 1 Peter 3: 7
Someone said: once ¨ women have many defects. Men only have two: everything they say and everything they do.
Many men are very negative in the way they live with their wives, they fail to acquire the wisdom that the word demands of us. There are many wounded women today because instead of being wise men are very abrupt, we want everything now and in our own way. The woman has a different perspective on things and on life. Do not forget the memory of the woman is much more detailed. You know many men have enslaved women, they do not let her develop, they do not give her enough economic resources to the extent that she has to do jobs that generate funds to be able to buy herself even if she is a Mac chiken, they are so dictators that they do not even adjust to decimate the Sir, they do not learn that your wife is the ideal help if you see her ruined, it is because someone ruined her, you know who you are.
Scientifically it is proven that the brain of man is different from that of woman.
The woman works both hemispheres, the man only works the right hemisphere. (and sometimes not even that).
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