How I know the art of Loving
John 2: 2
* What makes us suffer for Love.
Badly educated we get into a relationship because of what we live in our home, we are going to give what we learned, and thus we learn to love, positively or negatively there are patterns of behavior, such as toxic relationships, someone who tells you they love you, but mistreats you, he says: that he loves you but does not give you time, he says: that he loves you but does not understand you, he says: that he loves you but does not value you and ignores you.
He knows that's the word you want to hear, and these are repeating patterns
Love is learned, love is not a feeling, falling in love is a feeling.
* The chemistry of our brain in love and infatuation.
Falling in love: it is the first stage in a relationship, it is not love, falling in love is fantasy, it is a chemical connection example: I enter a place and look at someone and I begin to feel an attraction for anything,
in our brain there is a neurohormone called "dopamine" that is released in the first phase of falling in love and causes feelings of
euphoria linked to pleasure.
"When the cronch is over, the emotion is gone."
Then you say: I no longer feel the same, first mistake many say I love you from the start, and in reality what you are excited, passionate or excited, love is born when you live together, there you can say I love you.
The verb is misapplied, and comments come up, you've changed, nobody changes, a reality begins to be seen.
There is a chemical called Phenylethylamine, it performs several functions but one in particular prevents you from socially evaluating who you fall in love with, all the
The world can see that it is not convenient for you and they say: but what are you doing? Your parents, your friends and you do not listen, what did you see? What did he give you?
She or he does not see, what this chemist does is that he justifies all the defects of the person and says: this is says the Lord, and it was only in love then you see him that he is macho, he mistreats you, he is a despot, until he The FBI and the CIA fell, you realize that he did not change but that you are seeing him as he is.
When the infatuation is over, the person gives priority to his things and not to those of his partner or his marriage. He likes all or all but one, You. You begin to live the reality of anguish. You are in love, do not get married, wait for that stage to pass and you will last.
Love: God made woman as a suitable helper, he did not make her to fail man. If I love myself, I will love my partner.
To love is not infatuation, to love is to leave many things for my wife (or).
To love is to make my partner happy.
To love is to be a retailer, the one who loves takes their relationship from one level to another level
There are people who become dependent on their spouse and burden their partner with everything that happens to them.
Love has to do with decisions, change because I love him, in falling in love nothing is wrong with your husband. (Matthew 22:39).
They enter the 7-year crisis, you begin to be purified inside. Don't say I'm not happy but I have a woman.
Ephesians 5: 25-27, 28
* What is being in love and how long does it last
It is giving without waiting, it is sacrificing something for my spouse, if I do not love myself I will not be able to love anyone, love lasts when it is being cultivated.
Love your neighbor as yourself, Jesus said.
I am happy I do not need you to be happy, but I need you to share my happiness. A bitter person neither loves nor loves.
You imagine two unhappy married people, it won't work.
* What is love: 1. Corinthians 13: 4-8
It's living with someone I'm willing to go the extra mile with.
Today tell him I am no longer in love with you, today I love you, for what you are, you are my accomplice, my partner, my everything.
When I love I am willing to change, that is why love is learned, where I am learning to make one and the other happy.
* How I find myself.
* You do not need to lie for your partner to accept loyalty and fidelity are sisters, do not wear the mask, the mask takes it off or takes it off
Take away the time will come that you have to be yourself.
* You want to find yourself be yourself, do not use falsehood, use the truth first of all.
John 8: 31-32 / Isaiah 5:13
Biblical References:
John 4: 2
Matthew 22:39
Ephesians 5: 25-28
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
John 8: 31-32
Isaiah 5:13
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