When the wine runs out
John 2: 1-5
Introduction: In some marriages the wine ran out (Joy, passion, love) but today we will seek that the water (the word) produces that wine that fills your marriage with joy. (I'm not talking about natural wine, don't go out of here to buy half a dozen wine, it's not that wine, it's spiritual wine)
Renew: it is the act of returning something to its first state, leaving it as new.
In other languages how to update our relationship, refresh.
When he came he was missing. John 2: 1-3
I believe that marriage must enter stages of renewal where new things will come, because of the renewal.
The Bible says that at that wedding he came to an end, a Jewish feast without wine was a failure, which means for them wine, applying it to marriage, wine is passion, love, infatuation, delight, enjoyment . etc ... Many couples today are living without that wine they have run out for a long time, the renewal of vows is very important in the emotional and spiritual health of both, the wine is becoming scarce every day because the couples have run out of the wine, they are no longer durable marriages; have become express.
Where appearance, routine, and selfishness have finished the wine, the marriage has difficult moments, of crisis, ups and downs, but it is possible to move forward if the one who was in that wedding is in the relationship.
They have no wine. They were the words of the mother of Jesus, that your children, your parents, relatives or friends say about your relationship They have no wine, it is so remarkable when the wine runs out that you cannot hide it, and it is so remarkable when the wine is Present.
Why wine runs out in a marriage:
- The abuse. (way of speaking - rough)
- Lack of time and attention.
- Domestic violence (Matriarchy-Patriarchy, Machismo)
- Infidelity.
- indifference, or simplicity, lack of expression.
- Bad communication.
- Possessive Jealousy - Use of Lies.
- Lack of Understanding.
- Family problems.
- Lack of support for the family of both.
- The lack of revelation of honor to God.
- Financial mismanagement.
- Selfishness. Only me mine.
- Pride. The lack of agreement. - Living in the Past.
- Remind him of the past things that affected the relationship.
- The sexual frigidity in one of them.
- The lack of grooming and physical care of both.
- Immaturity - Social networks.
- The involvement of third parties in your Privacy.
- Discredit your spouse. (they reconcile and the relatives do not)
- This kills fast, Comparing your spouse with another person.
The first miracle of Jesus was not a healing, it was not a liberation, nor was it a resurrection, but it was a transformation, because when he is in a relationship a manifestation of change is seen, the water never made water again, it is I stay in wine and quality.
That quality is only produced by Christ in marriage.
When the guest is there if something is finished he will provide it. John 2: 6-8
If the wine runs out and the guest is there, he is capable of providing what is needed, that wedding could have been a failure but there was the one who can transform everything, I only need the jars symbol of the body of man and water is symbol of the word, the bible says: He who believes in me, as the scripture says, from his interior rivers of living water will flow. John 7:38
If the word is in marriage then he can transform your life and your marriage.
For a marriage not to lose love and all its ingredients must be nurtured with intimacy and relationship with Christ, the word, Prayer, communion with the brothers (congregate) are important ingredients.
The Power of Love is Christ in us. Ephesians 5: 25-28
Do not open wrinkle, stain (complaint) in our relationship for the love of Christ, man knows how to love, care for, protect, honor and sanctify his best before God and men.
John 2: 9-10 ¨ Reserving good wine means that the years have passed but love, passion, communion, communication, understanding is much better than at the beginning.
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