Who broke the Pact?
Mark 10: 9
Why is the Marriage Covenant broken sometimes?
What causes the pact to be broken?
This and many more questions arise when a man or a woman has been unfaithful to their partner.
Different occupations, lack of time, responsibilities in the church or work, or your business, can lead us to stop being the spouse that we once were.
We stop being the one who stops doing what they used to do with passion or joy.
We stop seeing the gift of God in our lives, the house, the children, the conquests, the beauty of our wife (or) we see the house and boring things, nothing satisfies us. The routine took over our being. And we stop feeling attracted and interesting to each other. And when we least agree we are vulnerable to the enemy's darts.
It is there where we begin to focus on what we are supposedly lacking, gratitude is the key to living happily.
Nothing that your partner does makes you happy, when you stopped being grateful.
… .. always giving thanks for everything to God and Father, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. -Ephesians 5:20 KJV
Philippians 4: 11-12
When the pact is broken we fall into the error that we hear but do not hear from our partner.
Stress, routine, lack of communication and special time as a couple infiltrate his or her heart and affect the relationship, where he or she thinks he is no longer interested.
Although it is necessary to know that none of these circumstances are excuses to sin. But if they are doors OR Fissures that open and the enemy uses to take us to their terrain.
There are things that you like but she doesn't.
When in frustration you abandon prayer, study, meditation of the word and the relationship with siblings you are in danger zone, isolating yourself in moments of depression can be dangerous for your relationship.
We began to distance ourselves from each other, each one wrapped up in his own world, without realizing the danger that threatens us ahead.
When you are about to break up, sinful thoughts continually arrive. And you lose sight of what was important, what was a priority to live for Christ and in God's purpose is diluted in the mind and heart of the person.
When you move away from your partner you begin to see mistakes and bad decisions, and that is when you act without thinking and measure the consequences that will sell your life.
The moment you fail the titles of friend, sister, servant of God and wife. They have no value anymore. When those find out what you have done and many point to you and abandon you.
What starts out as a fantasy turns into a dark nightmare and
painful.
Where reconciliation and restoration are often seen far away.
What about the Samaritan woman? Or the lost sheep?
Where is the love for the prodigal son?
Who broke the pact? You or she, you wonder, can God forgive me?
YES.
Jeremiah 15: 19-20
The Bible is full of men and women and even kings who sinned against God, but turned from sin, and God restored them.
God restores, man despises those who offend him.
2. Chronicles 33: 9-13, 1. Kings 21: 25-29
When we sin, we lose the right and give it to the enemy, but when we repent, we gain God's forgiveness and grace.
Infidelity has an origin and this origin is in the marriage, when I create the woman, said Jehovah God: it is not good that the man is alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him. Genesis 2:18
God did not create women to be unfaithful to men, men have not known how to treat and care for women.
The woman is sanctified in the man, the woman asks God to respect, but she will respect a man who loves her, cares for her and treats her well.
Ephesians 5: 21-23, 24-27, 28-29
Who broke the Pact? Now ask yourself, who is responsible for the pact being broken?
In some cases he or she, in other cases both of them, or the things that surround the marriage, commitments, activities or occupations, become the circumstances that lead to breaking the covenant that was made at the altar.
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